Dear Chela: How do I let go of the love who doesn’t love me back?

I get an astonishing number of questions about unavailable dudes. I spent the better part of my youth pining for them. Maybe it’s an unacknowledged calling of mine to help people walk the hell away from PRPs (potential romantic partners) who are unable to meet them. In any case, I both know the pain that this gal is in AND gave her the tough-love-smack-down.

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  1. D says:

    Loving, wise, and clear?
    Thank-you, Chela.
    (from someone who spent more than my youth on these “relationships” and not just romantic ones)

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